As soon as I uttered the words to my husband, as we enjoyed a cup of tea and a lie in in bed, I knew that our luck might be out. The delighted giggles and whispered words from the playroom had prompted me to comment on how lovely it was that the children were now old enough to play together nicely and enjoy little adventures. As we discovered they were certainly having an adventure and it was only when we heard them go into the kitchen to collect a dustpan and brush that we started to investigate. Mr S got to the playroom first and called me with a bit of panic in his voice, you’re not going to believe this. As I walked into the room all I could see was a snowy mess, hundreds of the small poly balls from the bean bag had been spilt everywhere. Whilst Mr S was a little stressed I did find the situation quite funny. I’ve cleaned up split bean bags before at work so wasn’t over whelmed about the tidying up. We haven’t quite discovered why the bean bag was opened, it was done carefully so no lasting damage to the beanbag, I think they just wanted some cargo for the carriages of the train set they were playing with at the time and then discovered it was fun to play with the small, light balls, a real sensory experience! The tidy up did delay my morning run, we all mucked in together but at least the play room is spotless and I think a lesson has been learnt that an open bean bag can cause an awful lot of mess.
Folk Festival
The first weekend in September is the annual Folk Festival, one of my favourite weekends. My memories of the weekend over the years have been of hot, balmy weather, friends and family visiting and folk music filling the air. I listened to the open air concert in bed last night and just felt relaxed and happy, I’m not sure who was playing but the reception was very warm. All over the weekend, there are many bands playing in various locations and one of the highlights is the procession through town of the folk dancers ending at the beach. Little Miss and I went down to the festival this afternoon to visit the main area, stalls, bars, music tents etc.. The craft tent is always very impressive and gave me lots of inspiration. We finished the afternoon on the promenade to see the dancers. There was such a variety of dancers, music, styles and colours in the procession, I lost count of the different troops. Little Miss did enjoy most of the dancers although she found some of the mummies rather frightening preferring the more traditional Morris dancing and the straw animals which were mascots. The music is so simple with the accordions and fiddles and the whole weekend does make you reflect on and celebrate our cultural heritage.
Presents
Last evening on his return home from work my lovely husband offered me a carrier bag and wished me a Happy Birthday and Merry Christmas, given its 2 months since my birthday and 3 months until Christmas it was interesting timing! Inside the bag was a new computer, although these days there is nothing as simple as a computer. On the box its called a Transformer Book, a screen which separates from the keyboard to become a Tablet but a device which gives you flexibility to use it as a laptop too. I was over whelmed by the gesture, I realised that even when I don’t think he’s listening to me, my husband does. Over the past few months, I’ve had technical problems with our family laptop and my Kindle Fire meaning I’ve had to do lots on my Smartphone which isn’t always the easiest or effective solution. I was coming to the conclusion that a new laptop was the only solution and was trying to work out how I could afford it, so for a perfect little model to arrive at home was fantastic.
Whilst my family have always done presents and made a big fuss of birthdays and Christmas, my husband doesn’t show the same enthusiasm and preparation for such events. At first I found this difficult but over the years I’ve grown accustomed to it, although this hasn’t stopped me doing celebrations for which he indulges my excitement. I know that my husband is a very generous, kind and thoughtful man and though this isn’t always shown on birthdays, its the other 364 days of the year which count. I would also hate him to think I was materialistic I would prefer nothing than something I didn’t need or want. Its a compromise that we live with comfortably and which has afforded me special moments like the totally unexpected but much appreciated new computer yesterday. Such gestures remind me how lucky I am to be married to a such a kind man, not for the gift but the thoughtfulness in recognising and addressing my need.
Ice Creams
Wednesday was the children’s first day back at school and I try to make these days special and memorable, well whilst the little ones are small enough to humour me! The day starts with the obligatory back to school photos in the morning, when we are all are clean and tidy, no uniforms on before breakfast today. These photos are diligently emailed through to the grandparents so whilst they don’t live near us they can share in the excitement of the day too. For Little Miss this is the third year of school and the change in her is significant in the images we have. After the poses and pleas for genuine smiles, our other tradition is much more appealing, after school we head to the ice cream parlour for a well deserved ice cream treat. On the walk down to town it feels gorgeous to hold their little hands after a day apart. This year it was exceptionally hot and sunny so the beach was busy and the little ones had an audience to play cute to as they licked their ice creams and chatted about their day. Given the school holidays are over it is a more mature tourist in town now, but they were enchanted by the children still in uniforms and carrying their little book bags and many came over to say hello or smiled at us. Its always a tiring day as we get back to the routine of school so baths and early nights all round but a happy day and I’ve got gorgeous photos too!
Happy New Year
Personally, September has always signalled the start of the new year. The academic year is the one I work and live through and having done so for the past 37 years as a pupil, student or teacher, January never has the same effect. I find New Year’s Eve one of the most depressing and forced occasions of the year, yet September is full of promise, new beginnings and challenges and most importantly lovely new stationery! Resolutions made in September, which yes are normally about losing weight or getting fit can be focused on a Christmas goal and there’s lots to look forward to in Autumn rather than the cold, miserable months of January and February. So happy new year, just don’t sing Auld Lang’s Syne.
The Air Festival
The last few days have been turning more autumnal; cooler days peppered with heavy rain showers. As this week coincides with the end of the school Summer holidays it has seemed there has been a definite shift of season. However as one last treat of Summer, we have had a rare hot and sunny day today, one last hurrah, the perfect day to go to the Air Show.
There was a fantastic atmosphere at the festival, it felt like everyone was enjoying the bonus Summer day and the planes on display were spectacular. I have seen the Red Arrows many times before and the show is always amazing but to watch them whilst paddling in the shimmering sea just felt a little bit special. No matter how many times I watch their stunts, the Red Arrows always look so fresh and slick and I always have to look through the fingers covering my eyes when they have their ‘near misses.’
In addition to the Red Arrows, there were lots more aviation opportunities at the festival. We went inside a grounded Chinook helicopter and had a good look around, the children went into the cockpit and then imagined parachuting out the back. There was also another excellent acrobatic display but for me the most moving spectacle was the fly past of a Lancaster Bomber and a Spitfire, planes with so much history and tradition. The soundtrack only added to the event and it felt emotional and poignant, a privilege to see such important planes.
Today really was the perfect end to the Summer holidays, a happy family day.
Disneyland Paris
Yesterday the photo album of our Disney holiday arrived in the post. Normally I create an annual photo book using all our digital images, but having taken so many photos and in recognition of the very special holiday it was, I felt Disney merited a book of its own, likewise a review and some personal reminders on this blog.
It has taken me a long time to visit Disneyland Paris. Twenty years ago when it opened, I was on my placement year working near Paris. However the art galleries, tourist attractions and night life of the capital were more appealing to me than Disneyland and I never visited the new park. At the time there was a feeling of indifference to the attraction in France and as I tried to embrace the life of a Francophile, I focused on more French pastimes. Fast forward twenty years and some of my preconceptions about Disney were slowly dissipating. Since having the children I have warmed to Disney as a brand I can trust and I also wanted to believe that Disneyland would be a magical experience for the children and a very special trip they would always love and remember.
My feelings for Disney improved as the holiday approached and lovely, little details emerged. For example when our tickets arrived, the luggage labels were lovely and practical, hard wearing plastic coated labels of Disney characters. Little Miss got to be Cinderella, Little Man, Buzz Lightyear and Daddy and I Mickey and Minnie Mouse. The excitement built at the train station, Ashford International where Mickey does the train announcements for the Disney Express, by the time I got on the train I was genuinely excited. One of the benefits of staying in a Disneyland hotel is that your luggage is delivered directly to the hotel so we were in the park minutes after arriving at the TGV station. I genuinely had butterflies in my tummy as we walked through the entrance, down Maine Street and I got my first sight of Sleeping Beauty’s castle. Its beauty is breath taking and it is emotional to see it for the first time, I did blink away happy tears. Its not just a castle its a symbol of something bigger, its the image you have seen so many times when watching a Disney film, something you associate with dreams and magic. The castle was so beautiful, the sun glistened on the gold turrets in the day and it was truly mesmerising in the evening all lit up.
We stayed at the Sequoia Lodge hotel. The rooms were clean, large and perfect for our needs with a beautiful view of the lake. We enjoyed the Lodge’s facilities, the swimming pool and restaurants were excellent. The half board option was brilliant, we were able to use our vouchers in other restaurants in the park and village and we also received a daily afternoon snack token. On our final night, we were booked into Café Mickey and it was an amazing experience. We met Mickey, Minnie, Tigger, Pluto and Goofy. The characters were fantastic with the children lots of photos and high 5s. Little Man amused us all as he hid under the table when Minnie arrived, his explanation was that he doesn’t like girls!
We had done our research prior to the holiday and realised that as we were going at the busiest time of year, we needed to be organised. This meant we used the 8am early opening every morning. It was the best time of the day and we got to ride on our favourite rides many, many times! We also made use of the Fast Pass so queuing was not the issue we had feared. The iPhone app with waiting times was also a big help when we were looking for ideas and areas to head to. We tended to stay at the park until early afternoon and then return to the hotel for a swim, rest and change of clothes before returning for the evening.
The rides were excellent, we did all the possible rides for our height. We all had different favourites, Buzz and Star Wars were the main attractions for Little Man, whilst Little Miss loved the Carousel and surprisingly the Phantom House. We returned to Pirates of the Caribbean several times for Daddy, but for me Peter Pan was so beautiful and simple that it was my firm favourite. The surprising aspect of the rides was that it was not about amazing effects, state of the art trickery but simple ideas beautifully executed. The children loved Autopia, which simply was 1950s cars they could drive. I also greatly admired the grounds, so exquisitely presented. My over riding impression is the level of detail and care in the park, at Disney it seems that every little detail counts. I have never been to an attraction so clean and tidy. Detail is everywhere, the beautiful shop windows, the Queen peeping out of the window by Snow White’s ride, there are so many tiny details everywhere you need to do the rides many times to notice everything.
The Disney parade was magical and the reaction of our little ones so heart warming and delightful. Our daughter’s reaction to seeing the Frozen princesses Ana and Elsa on their float was perfect, such delight and disbelief, more happy tears behind my sunglasses! For Little Man the highlight was the Toy Story float, although I think having his photo taken with Buzz the next day may have topped the parade. He just couldn’t take his eyes off his hero and cuddled and high fived him with such joy. It is these moments which will live with me forever, being able to give our children such happy and joyful times give us indescribable pleasure and delight.
Whilst we did spend more time in the park, we also visited the Disney studios, with Cars and Toy Story rides it was hugely popular with Little Man. Personally I liked the shows here, I thought Animagique, Cinemagique and the Cars stunt show were very cleverly done. I did find the studio much busier than the park, but the new ride Ratatouille had just opened and was very much in demand. Again great planning here meant I queued for 5 minutes for Fast Pass and then we just had a 5 minute queue for the ride when we returned at our allotted time. At this time the queue for the ride was more than 2 hours. Given such demand, the expectations of the ride were high and again Disney did not disappoint, its a multi sensory ride which you ride wearing 3d glasses. I have no idea how it is done, but it is very special, innovative and creative.
Disney was an amazing holiday, it was everything I wished for and more, it softened me and made me just a little more sparkly and joyful. I loved the way our family relaxed, smiled and shared such magical experiences, such a special and precious holiday.
The Skate Park
Today was one of those rare days this holiday where we had no plans. Its a nice feeling sometimes just to see where the day takes you and after some household chores, we decided on a trip to the skate park. This necessitated that our first job was to fix Little Man’s scooter, it only needed a few adjustments and a screw to be tightened and once I had found the correct tool it was quickly done but to my son my skills brought me near super hero status. It’s refreshing to play super hero Mummy rather than firm but fair Mummy! On arrival at the skate park, there was great excitement all round, for the children two new jumps have been installed and for me, it finally has a bench, no more sitting on the tarmac. When you visit the park as often as we do, the bench is a big thing; comfortable seating and I now have a great view of all the park, rather than having to jump up and down as I used to so I could see the children behind the jumps etc..
The park was empty when we arrived so lots of time and space to play, try a few tricks and generally act cool. No matter what the age, it appears you need a bit of a swagger to walk into a skate park. After a while, a friend of Little Man scooted in too and with his siblings and my two they all had a fantastic time riding, jumping and twirling. It was so nice to enjoy a relaxed chat with their Mum, she is just such a happy, positive and bubbly person and you can’t help but feel inspired and excited about life. As we left the skate park, the children a little more practiced with their riding skills, me, happy and refreshed, what more can you ask for from a morning?






