My week in 5 …

It has been a busy week and one in which I did a lot of driving, particularly in the evenings. On dark nights, our country roads can be dangerous as deer often jump out and I did scream one night when I missed one by centimetres. My heart was beating furiously and the large deer just sauntered across the road, oblivious to what had just happened.

On Tuesday evening, my daughter and I went to see some of my students perform in the Shakespeare in Schools festival at the main theatre in town. This is such an impressive accomplishment as they have complex learning needs and have worked so hard to achieve what they did. The students did receive a standing ovation and there were tears in my eyes of pride and joy. Even my hard to impress daughter was moved by the performance.

As well as late night I have also had early mornings, and seeing as my daily alarm goes off at 6am, the earlier alarm was tough. I needed to pop into B&Q en route to work to pick up some paints for a decorating project. I was there by 7.15 and got all the items required for the work. We have been wishing to decorate our shower room and transform the play room to a teenage den for a while and had pencilled it in for the spring. However with Mr S accident, DIY is not possible and we have booked a local decorator to do the work for us. We have gone for some bold colours, emerald glade for the den and a teal for the shower room. I feel that neutral accessories with a twist will tone down the room. I wanted a real colour than neutrals, lets live life in technicolour!

With all my driving I have been catching up on my podcasts and have listened to some great interviews, particularly with inspiring women. I was really wowed by Nisha Katina, a barrister who then built the Mongolian Street Food chain of restaurants and then by the Antarctic Fire Angels, Rebecca and Georgina who skied to the South Pole. On Friday night I was captivated by the progress of the ultra runner Jasmin Paris, who became the first female finisher of the Barclay Ultra, an utterly nuts race. The only way to follow is on Twitter with updates from ‘Keith’ and there was lots of refreshing to see if Paris could do it, to come in just 90 seconds off the cutoff was brilliant. Sometimes you simply have to stop and applaud incredible physical and mental success.

Finally, I have definitely become a Vinted fan. I am on my way to getting my whole cruise wardrobe with my favourite brands for a fraction of the price I would have paid on the high street. I love my new Seasalt skirt, a steal at £4.50 as it is in mint condition. I have also bought three pairs of shorts, White Stuff, Fat Face and Boden, for just over £10 combined and again in amazing condition. Having just finished reading Fast Fashion, it makes me feel that I am trying to counter the throwaway clothing so easily available.

Next week is a four day week, which of course at work we’re all trying to convince ourselves is half a week! It’ll be a good week with lots of Easter treats and fun, and then its a two and a bit Easter holiday, only second to the summer on my league table of school holidays.

My week in 5

I was considering doing 10 things this fortnight when I realised that as some of my highlights are repeats I may as well just do my five. I didn’t manage to do this post last week as I was feeling pretty rough on Sunday and spent most of Mother’s Day, on the sofa cuddled up to my blanket. Life is so full on at present, I did need this day to simply recover for the coming week.

Yesterday saw the end of what seems to have been weeks of parkrun celebrations, our parkrun’s 100th event and then 2nd birthday, and my 100th overall and then 50th at my home parkrun. I did celebrate my 100th with a sparkling badge and tutu and cakes, but was happy to do a quiet run yesterday after my shout out. I am proud of my 100, it took nearly 5 years, but in my defence there was a 70 week COVID pause, as well as a period of Saturday swimming lessons, a summer season of junior cricket and recovery from foot surgery. I’m hoping to do my next 150 a little more efficiently, hopefully within the next 5 years for my next milestone of 250. Until then its a welcome return to the gentle plod of a Saturday run, slowly building up my numbers and maybe ticking off a challenge or town on the 5k app. What will happen first stopwatch bingo, 11 to go or my 250?

There’s been a lot of football in the past fortnight, training and then two home league games. In both the league games, our team was down in both but managed to gain something from each game. Wednesday night’s was one with all the feels and one of the best I’ve ever been to. It was rearranged from an abandoned game in December. The game took place just days after Mr S accident and whilst I was at his bedside in hospital, grandad took our son to the game to give him a little normality in a very scary time. Unfortunately at this match, a Luton player collapsed and had to be resuscitated on the pitch and the game was quite rightly abandoned. I couldn’t quite believe what had happened as our son had then witnessed two potentially life changing incidents in a matter of days. He appears to have coped admirably with what he has seen, but it was wonderful to go to the match and see the player who had ‘died’ for two minutes come out onto the pitch to thank the medical team and fans. There were lots of tributes and special activities around the ground, a focus on CPR, charity information and fundraising, a night where life was the winner. It was a perfect midweek game, a mild, dry night, a live band playing by the outside bars, a real buzz of excitement. The game was spectacular, I don’t really know how as it was pretty evenly matched, but our team found themselves trailing 3-0 at half time. They then came back to win 4-3 on the night, in a game where the atmosphere was unbelievable and the noise incredible. It was one of those ‘I was there moments’. I also feel it was closure on a football game many years ago in 1985. My brother and I used to go to every Reading home game with my dad, but on the last game before Christmas, my dad was helping at the cubs Christmas party so mum took us to the game instead. Reading were 3-0 down at half time and mum with a long to do list for Christmas persuaded us to jump in the car and head into town as the game was lost. My dad having finished the party got to the game for the second half and watched Reading overturn the score to win 4-3. It’s one of our favourite family stories and I don’t think I have left a match early since.

As Mr S continues his recovery by going to bed very early every night, on the nights when I’m not catching up on work, I have been enjoying a film or reading books. I have watched the film ‘Are you there God, its me Margaret?’ I loved Judy Blume’s books as a tween, and yes we all passed ‘Forever’ around our class. This film is just lovely, the sense of 70s seeps through every scene and its such a feel good film, i thoroughly recommend it. I have read a lot of fiction recently so am enjoying some non fiction with ‘How to Break up with Fast Fashion’ I read a similar book many years ago but am still interested in this more recent take on our ongoing and greater obsession with fashion. At the beginning of the year I set myself a little challenge to try and source as much of my cruise wardrobe from charity and vintage shops or preloved on Vinted or EBay. Whilst I do draw the line at underwear and swimsuits, so far I am delighted by a couple of sundresses, a skirt and shorts I have got for the combined total of less than £20.

Finally this week all staff at the special needs school where I work received a delightful gift from Lush, whose factories are very close by. Lush donated beautiful candles and it was such a kind gesture that made us all feel special. Even better there are enough candles for our parents too, so that special feeling will be shared by our whole school community.

My week in 5 …

This is another one of those weeks where it has been busy without many special events, just the mundanity of life. When life is full of Instagram images of everyone having amazing times, it is easy to forget that this is a curated medium and real life is simpler and sometimes a little bit dull.

This year, I have been reading lots, with Mr S going to bed early each night, I am switching the television off at 7pm and putting on my music and doing school work, such is the life of a teacher, and then either browsing Vinted, my new guilty pleasure, or reading. I am averaging a book a week and this week’s Us Three by Ruth Jones was read in far less time. It was a great story and with a significant part set in the 80s a great nostalgia treat. I did laugh when the characters went to a club in Cardiff which I frequented in the 90s, it hadn’t changed with time! I really admire Jones’ writing from one of the writers of my favourite comedy Gavin and Stacey (and please may the Christmas special rumours be true) to her novels, she never disappoints.

On Monday, I was on football training duty with my son. It is a fair trek to the county town but it was a beautiful sunny spring afternoon and the later sunset was spectacular. It was a treat to see my son train and enjoy his football. I will be on similar duties until Mr S can hopefully drive again in June. This cannot come quick enough as he is not the most patient passenger.

Life is so mundane this week that 2 of my 5 are work related items. I really enjoyed a lesson I taught on Welsh love spoons in which we made our own. It was one of those magical lessons where everything seemed to come together and our soundtrack of popular songs sang in Welsh was beautiful. Secondly, we are embracing world book day next week and busy creating our costumes. My class has chosen Alice in Wonderland and I’m the Mad Hatter. On Saturday afternoon I headed to the random little junk shop which has a rail of clothes for £1. I am going for mad, clashing designs and bought a velvet jacket and stripy blouse for just £2, my hat and wig has also arrived and are fabulous, I am also going for crazy odd knee length socks and odd trainers, its certainly a look!

My final thing this week was a trip on Saturday morning, yes I gave up my weekly parkrun,to go to the open day of the college my daughter hopes to go to. It was interesting and the course does look great. I was delighted to get a few freebies, teachers are always on the hunt for free pens, pads and a tote bag, all indispensable to our daily work!