My week .. the one with magic moments

After last week’s attempt to see the Christmas tree lights ended up in an unexpected visit to A&E for my son, we made a new date and yesterday, we had the most special mum and son day exploring the lights. And then to continue the festive theme, our little family of four visited a local National Trust property today where as well as doing a woodland walk around their grounds, we visited the house which has been beautifully decorated for Christmas. It’s unlike me to go in early for Christmas but with Mr S having surgery on the 12th of December and needing time to rest and recuperate, if we want to do some festive family events we need to do them early.

Saturday was a beautiful winter’s day, bright blue skies but with a definite chill in the air. I ran my home parkrun and with the views and sunshine on my face, it certainly gave me a real sense of peace in another busy week. We headed over to the Christmas lights in the afternoon, again on the bus as it’s so much easier and the journey is often cited as one of the most picturesque journeys in the UK. Whilst it was Black Friday weekend, we had ordered the presents we were after on Friday night, so we didn’t do much shopping, just pottering around the Christmas market before dusk fell and we could explore the lights. Part of the occasion is to have a special festive refreshment, previously it’s been freshly baked pizza, crepes and churros but tonight we went to a hut designed as a hot chocolate emporium. Quite simply it was the best hot chocolate I’ve ever had. You choose, milk or white chocolate, a syrup and then it came with all the trimmings, cream, sprinkles, marshmallows, a gingerbread man and a candy cane. We paid an extra £3 to get the mug with twinkling lights too, it just felt oh so festive. I went for white chocolate and butterscotch and it was perfect, the best accessory for walking through the illuminated gardens. The gardens are really Christmassy, along with all the different lights, there is a skating rink and an Alpine hideaway. The lights are so impressive, the trees are huge and there were lots of nice new touches this year, a tunnel of lights, the waterfall now featuring some polar bears too, projections onto nearby buildings, and some new displays. It was busy but it added to the atmosphere, and you could easily get to all the lights. It was also friendly and relaxed with people taking each other’s group photos, everyone simply delighted to be in such a magical space. My son and I both really enjoyed it and it felt special that even as a teenager he wanted to be with me to see the lights.


Today, we hadn’t really planned our visit to the National Trust property, we were looking for somewhere different to go and walk and remembered we had a free entry pass needing to be used up. I knew of their special Christmas decorations in the house but also knew it would be popular and we might not get a ticket as they only allow so many people in for a timed slot. However the weather was drizzly and grey and when we get there early, it was quieter than normal and we managed to secure a time only 15 minutes away, perfectly timed for a quick look around the shop! The house is always beautiful, but the decorations took it to another magical level. Each room and area had been decorated exquisitely. The trees reflect each room, the library was so cosy lit by candlelight, the ladies salon sparkled and the dining room’s tree complemented the beautiful greenery arch over the table. However, it was the other decorations which were so memorable, the beautiful fireplace, the moon display, the table delightfully set with a Nutcracker theme and a stunning paper display. The paper decoration was a cube around 1.5 metres high, with each side showing a scene cut from paper and lit. It really was breath-taking and I was so pleased we were able to tour the house today. We followed it up with a damp walk around the woods and gardens to blow the cobwebs before we came home and settled into a cosy afternoon in.

This was the weekend I really needed, there’s lots going on and our two festive visits felt like a much needed escape to a sparkly, twinkly world. The festive treats continue next weekend, with our town’s Christmas market which is a genuine highlight of the year and then when the boys go to football on Sunday, my daughter and I are heading off to Southampton for our annual Christmas shopping trip. I’m pretty organised this year, the children want a few big presents which we have already ordered thanks to looking out for offers. So far on my shopping list it’s Christmas pyjamas and a few decorations, I’ve no doubt on my daughter’s list there’ll be nails, eye lashes and a few clothes totally unsuitable for the winter weather! However, there will definitely be a special lunch with a few mocktails. What’s not to love?

My week .. the one with a late night read.

I am starting to write this blog in the most unusual of places, our local A&E. My son collapsed this afternoon (and recovered) but we were advised to go to hospital and are now awaiting test results and further advice. It was supposed to be our special mum and son day but now will be memorable for the wrong reasons. The incident happened fairly early in our day in the neighbouring town where we had gone for the Christmas market and light festival so not only did he fall ill, we also didn’t get to do our little treats we had planned so carefully ☹️. I am so grateful to the members of the public who rushed to help and to the lovely Welsh lady who stayed with us and gave me a big cwtch which was so needed. It’s a strange old time at present, there’s a lot of sad news around but also it really feels that we’re all together and looking out for each other.

Today had started so positively, I had a great time at parkrun, chatting with a friend and then despite an awful forecast, running in bearable conditions. I felt really good running today and managed my best course time for about 18 months. I also got my best ever position, 32 but in fairness the weather had put off many runners.

Apart from today it’s been a quiet and uneventful week. Our daughter is doing GCSE mocks and despite her anxiety she has sat every exam. We’ve had a few tense drives to school but the drives home have been much more positive.

I’ve been trying to read lots to try and get somewhere near my Good Reads target. I have had several books on the go and am finishing them off. I did manage to read a book in about 24 hours this week, pretty good going when it was a school day too. The book The Rachel Incident was excellent and had me up to the early hours finishing it off.

This week has also seen me doing more Christmas prep, all is going smoothly and my lists are being ticked off. I have a few items for which I’m waiting for Black Friday to see if they are reduced but for most of my presents, I’m trying to use small businesses rather then the big multi nationals.

Next week continues to be a fairly quiet week, I’m trying to bank these before the whirlwind of Christmas events for us all. My diary is my best friend in December!

My weeks .. the seasonal edit

Its another fortnightly catch up, the two weeks after half term which has included Mr S’ birthday, Halloween, our 25th anniversary of being a couple, Bonfire night (although the storm meant most displays were postponed or cancelled) and lots of football for my boys. The most significant event of this fortnight, is one I don’t feel comfortable writing about, but it has made me reflect on the beauty and fragility of life and how important it is to be there for each other.

Mr S birthday was a quiet celebration and we went out for a lovely family meal at a carvery. I never buy Mr S a traditional birthday cake, it is always his favourite, Christmas cake and this year, I sourced the one which keeps on coming top in best taste tests from Aldi. I do love a little mooch around Aldi and whilst I did get the cake, which was delicious and well worthy of its awards, I also picked up lots of lovely goodies too, I’m particularly looking forward to the blonde chocolate elves.

I am feeling pretty well organised for Christmas this year. I’ve been buying presents and wrapping them as I go along. I even managed to find the Christmas flavoured crisps this week for Mr S, although I would not recommend the Christmas pudding flavour, I only tasted one and it was enough! Last year, I experienced my first Christmas since returning to work full time and know this year, I want to make sure that I do as much preparation as I can early so I can relax and enjoy December and its special events. Mr S played his part this week, finding and ordering some presents and booking the coveted Tesco Christmas delivery. I am planning the Christmas menu, although was disappointed by this year’s Good Food Vegetarian Christmas magazine. However, as I have many past editions, I buy it every year, I am sure I can find a special main course for Christmas dinner. My personalised Christmas cards arrived this week and they are amazing, I am so impressed and absolutely delighted with the design. I can’t wait to write and send them out. I am making a real effort to support small businesses this year and Instagram has been a wonderful source of ideas and links. This morning, I also popped into the best local Christmas decoration shop situated in a great garden centre. It is next to a parkrun and as I’m going to be running locally probably until after Christmas, I took the opportunity for a little tourism. I wanted a flat parkrun that my daughter would enjoy, our home run is so tough it can be daunting. We both ran well and loved our little visit to the Christmas shop, it is the most magical shop, with so many different themed rooms. We then popped over to Waitrose for nibbles for lunch and to sustain GCSE mock exam revision!

This week, my new bureau arrived. When we moved nearly 20 years ago, I found an old bureau in a second hand shop. It has served me very well and I have renovated it too, but sadly after 20 years daily use, it needed to be replaced. Buy a new bureau was one of my #23for23 and this year, I have spent the year hunting online and in charity furniture depots, retro warehouses etc.. to find a new bureau with no success. Its become a bit of a family mission too, and last week Mr S sent me some photos of a bureau he had seen in the window of a local charity shop in excellent condition. Initially I didn’t think it was the style I was looking for but at the price, £25 it would at least be an interim. However, I have totally fallen in love with its 1970s style and it is perfect, I am so pleased to have my new bureau. It also shows how rewarding on so many different levels it is to buy second hand. I have had a bit of a Vinted blitz this week and have a beautiful party skirt from Coast (£4), and everyday skirts from Laura Ashley and White Stuff (£6 each) due to arrive next week.

Today is Armistice day, I wore my poppy to parkrun and as we drove home we by chance, found ourselves driving near the village where my Gramps had served with the RAF. The autumn colours were stunning, bright blue skies and a very poignant place to be at 11am to remember all who served in war. This afternoon, I needed to pop into town briefly but did take the time to walk along the seafront and up to the war memorial. The big parade is tomorrow afternoon but I found it peaceful to visit it today. The remembrance crosses each bearing the name of a serviceman from the memorial had been planted by school children yesterday in the traditional school’s service and the child made wreaths on the memorial were simple and moving.