
Its another fortnightly catch up, the two weeks after half term which has included Mr S’ birthday, Halloween, our 25th anniversary of being a couple, Bonfire night (although the storm meant most displays were postponed or cancelled) and lots of football for my boys. The most significant event of this fortnight, is one I don’t feel comfortable writing about, but it has made me reflect on the beauty and fragility of life and how important it is to be there for each other.
Mr S birthday was a quiet celebration and we went out for a lovely family meal at a carvery. I never buy Mr S a traditional birthday cake, it is always his favourite, Christmas cake and this year, I sourced the one which keeps on coming top in best taste tests from Aldi. I do love a little mooch around Aldi and whilst I did get the cake, which was delicious and well worthy of its awards, I also picked up lots of lovely goodies too, I’m particularly looking forward to the blonde chocolate elves.
I am feeling pretty well organised for Christmas this year. I’ve been buying presents and wrapping them as I go along. I even managed to find the Christmas flavoured crisps this week for Mr S, although I would not recommend the Christmas pudding flavour, I only tasted one and it was enough! Last year, I experienced my first Christmas since returning to work full time and know this year, I want to make sure that I do as much preparation as I can early so I can relax and enjoy December and its special events. Mr S played his part this week, finding and ordering some presents and booking the coveted Tesco Christmas delivery. I am planning the Christmas menu, although was disappointed by this year’s Good Food Vegetarian Christmas magazine. However, as I have many past editions, I buy it every year, I am sure I can find a special main course for Christmas dinner. My personalised Christmas cards arrived this week and they are amazing, I am so impressed and absolutely delighted with the design. I can’t wait to write and send them out. I am making a real effort to support small businesses this year and Instagram has been a wonderful source of ideas and links. This morning, I also popped into the best local Christmas decoration shop situated in a great garden centre. It is next to a parkrun and as I’m going to be running locally probably until after Christmas, I took the opportunity for a little tourism. I wanted a flat parkrun that my daughter would enjoy, our home run is so tough it can be daunting. We both ran well and loved our little visit to the Christmas shop, it is the most magical shop, with so many different themed rooms. We then popped over to Waitrose for nibbles for lunch and to sustain GCSE mock exam revision!
This week, my new bureau arrived. When we moved nearly 20 years ago, I found an old bureau in a second hand shop. It has served me very well and I have renovated it too, but sadly after 20 years daily use, it needed to be replaced. Buy a new bureau was one of my #23for23 and this year, I have spent the year hunting online and in charity furniture depots, retro warehouses etc.. to find a new bureau with no success. Its become a bit of a family mission too, and last week Mr S sent me some photos of a bureau he had seen in the window of a local charity shop in excellent condition. Initially I didn’t think it was the style I was looking for but at the price, £25 it would at least be an interim. However, I have totally fallen in love with its 1970s style and it is perfect, I am so pleased to have my new bureau. It also shows how rewarding on so many different levels it is to buy second hand. I have had a bit of a Vinted blitz this week and have a beautiful party skirt from Coast (£4), and everyday skirts from Laura Ashley and White Stuff (£6 each) due to arrive next week.
Today is Armistice day, I wore my poppy to parkrun and as we drove home we by chance, found ourselves driving near the village where my Gramps had served with the RAF. The autumn colours were stunning, bright blue skies and a very poignant place to be at 11am to remember all who served in war. This afternoon, I needed to pop into town briefly but did take the time to walk along the seafront and up to the war memorial. The big parade is tomorrow afternoon but I found it peaceful to visit it today. The remembrance crosses each bearing the name of a serviceman from the memorial had been planted by school children yesterday in the traditional school’s service and the child made wreaths on the memorial were simple and moving.









