Life Lately 26 25/52 : Heatwave

It’s been a funny old summer, this was the second heatwave of the season yet it feels like it’s been a dull summer so far. The first heatwave fell in half term but this time it was a working week. Fortunately our school is a new build and we all have very effective air conditioning in our classrooms. I cannot imagine what classes would have been like in other schools as the heat was intense, definitely higher than the predicted temperatures. It’s rare to have a first in my 30 year teaching career but I achieved that this week with the first ‘hot’ break akin to wet break, as we needed to stay inside as it was too dangerous for the children to be out in the sunshine and heat during the day. When we took the children out at the end of the day, the intensity of the heat was like when you step off a plane on a sunny holiday abroad and the ‘hot’ break was definitely the correct option. Whilst I’ve had excellent air conditioning in the classroom and new car, the heat has sapped my energy and it has been more challenging to sleep at night. I have a smart watch and generally get a very good sleep score of at least 80 a night, this week it’s averaged 50 as I’ve tossed and turned in the sweltering heat. It’s also World Cup games at very different times so bedtimes have been affected by watching the games too. England have played at 9pm and 10pm so that’s late bedtimes. Neither game was particularly good but results mean that England got through and now play their next game in Wednesday at the very reasonable time of 5pm. I am finding it difficult to follow this World Cup as so many of the games are played at night. Normally, I love to try and cram as many games as possible in but it just isn’t possible and this tournament seems a little disjointed.

It was a full on week with two late nights at work, for a meeting and parents evening, a further late night as I sold my old car to a car dealer after work and then had to catch a bus, home, 1 hour 20 minutes on a sweltering bus, for a journey easily done in 35 minutes by car. Living rurally the bus goes through all the villages and towns en route to our town, it’s a long and windy journey. I was impressed by the ease of cancelling my insurance, breakdown cover etc.. Sometimes online admin works brilliantly.

After all the busyness of the week, we’ve had a much needed quiet weekend at home. I volunteered rather than ran at parkrun as I am trying to recover from injury. It feels like I’ve been injured on and off for most of the year. It was a lovely morning I had great company on my marshal spot and then had a lovely chatty breakfast with my parkrun buddy and son on a warm and sunny terrace. I do love chatting to the tourists and met some really interesting people, I was fascinated by a couple whom are just finishing off the South West Coastal path after walking it over the past few months, what a great adventure. I spent the rest of the day doing some admin, a couple of passes needed to be redone for the new car and I finally got to personalise the car, it’s now got the football club sticker on the back window, my spare glasses etc.. It’s my new on the road office! I am also loving the electric car, I have an app which tells me our charging costs and reduces it to the best possible rate, I charged it up yesterday, admittedly it was on 55% charge when it started but it cost less than £1. I did cash out my loyalty at the petrol station this week as I won’t be using my loyalty account again and got a nice little Amazon voucher.

This morning I went to park Yoga, again an absolutely beautiful session. Before I started this summer I had never done yoga and I worry in the winter months that the wonderful al fresco yoga I’ve been doing will mean that indoor practice won’t feel so special and relaxing. On my walk home from the park I walked along the beach and got a takeaway coffee, life felt pretty perfect. I also did something that I haven’t done so far this year. I got the garden recliner out and simply sat and relaxed listening to a few podcasts for an hour, the break was very much needed.

I have a new audio book for my commute, one of this summer’s bestsellers Yesteryear. I’ve read about a quarter of it so far and it’s already an interesting take on influencers and one whose themes are making me uncomfortable. I’m not quite sure where it’s going which is great, as it’s unusual to read an original story.

I’m hoping to have another quiet week, before the busy last fortnight of the term. I’m moving classes so have a little extra on my to do list too. I’m hoping to do as much as possible so the 6 week holiday is a time to relax, play and explore.

Life lately 26 : 24/52 Birmingham

And so after all the planning and prep, we had our daughter’s 18th birthday weekend in Birmingham. No one really knows how we came up with the idea of Birmingham and it’s been an ongoing puzzle over the weekend. We do remember that the initial plan of London was changed when Harry Styles announced his concerts and hotel prices rocketed. Perhaps we chose it as being the second city with lots happening and a little more affordable. However we made the choice, it was a brilliant one, we all loved our weekend, Birmingham had so much to see and do and a bostin’ weekend was had by all.

The previous week was manic, not the quiet relaxed run up. Our son had his DofE residential which went really well and we received lovely compliments about his enthusiasm and commitment. I picked up our new car, normally this would be highly exciting but I have literally brought it home, tested the charger and left it on the driveway. I didn’t want to leave it at the station car park for a weekend so used my old car instead which we’re in the midst of selling. Hopefully next week I’ll have some time to make it more me, put our football team’s sticker in the window, add little things and enjoy driving the new car. The evening we went to get the new car was the night our son was camping and we were planning a nice pub meal on the way home and a little date night. However I had a banging headache and felt so nauseous that we had to postpone the dinner. On some days this week I was fuelled by painkillers, there was so much happening at work and home, I was dizzy with the plans.

The one challenge of the weekend was the train travel. Both legs of our journey were cancelled in advance and the new journeys were crazily busy, to the point of dangerous over crowding, running very late and hot, hot carriages. I have submitted our claims so hopefully we will get some money back for the inconvenience. However I would prefer a service which is quick, efficient and reliable. On the way up we were researching train times to Manchester for the first game of the season but after this experience, we’re not going to risk it.

As we knew the cancellation in advance, I was able to make some very quick adjustments to our day to catch an earlier train. This meant that we didn’t miss any of our time in Birmingham, as the early train finally pulled in at the ETA of the original. It had taken 5.5 hours of train travel and one change rather than 3 hours 20 on a through train. Friday evening had been planned as a relaxed evening, we popped into a restaurant for dinner close to the station when we arrived and then got our bearings and walked to the hotel. After dropping off our cases, the children and I walked back into town to get ourselves familiar with the places we needed to go to on Saturday. There was such a great vibe in the centre and then we stumbled across the most beautiful cafe, E,L & N London. It’s not a brand I’m familiar with but the patisserie looked too good to walk past and as we hadn’t had dessert we popped in for a treat. It is so beautifully decorated in pink and sage green and looks so, so pretty. The cakes were amazing and it felt very European sitting in a cafe and watching the world go by in the late evening. The warm weather and sunshine helped too. My daughter was also very impressed by its Instagram potential and was busy snapping away. We also went to see the bull opposite the cafe which then became a mini quest to find the bulls around Birmingham, there was the bronze one in the centre, a football one at Selfridges and the icon that is Ozzy at the station. We were lucky enough to see him put on a little show, moving his head and his eyes changing colour. It’s these little random things that give a city its character and fun.

When we got back in the hotel, I decorated our room for the birthday celebration. I was delighted how it all came together, the decorations, huge balloons, Polaroid pictures over the years etc.. I finished it around midnight and was able to wish my daughter happy birthday and take a photo with the balloons.

Just to emphasise what a special weekend this was, I resisted any temptation to do a parkrun on Saturday morning and we had a leisurely breakfast before heading to the shops. My daughter had a pair of Vivienne Westwood earrings on her wish list so Selfridges was our first stop where she found the ones she wanted. We also treated ourselves to a little mooch and a few new purchases from the beauty counter whilst the boys did the sports shops. The beauty counters and food hall are definitely part of the Selfridges experience. We had to also visit the biggest Primark in the country but it was a little hot and overwhelming here.

The main event of the weekend was to fit my daughter’s brief of jazz and cocktails. Initially this was a tough ask, I did so much research and the jazz bars were either closed or playing different genres on the date. After lots more searching and a little bit of panic, I was able to find that the Grand hotel did a themed 1920s dinner with jazz. It was described as an intimate dinner in a speakeasy and as well as the food there was a live jazz band performing between courses and an entertainer who did a few turns as fire eater, dancer and gymnast. I was really not sure what to expect but the evening totally surpassed our expectations and we all loved it. My daughter and I dressed up in 1920s style and it really added to our enjoyment. The hotel is beautiful and the room was cosy, intimate with a hint of 20s decadence and secrecy. It was a very cleverly put together evening with excellent food and the perfect venue for the 18th birthday celebration. The boys returned to the hotel around 11ish but my daughter and I went on to a bar for cocktails as she wanted to be able to buy me a drink on her birthday. Typically on the day she could use her id, it wasn’t asked for! It was a lovely way to end her very special day.

After such a hectic few weeks, it’s time to relax and get life back into order before the final planning and packing for our summer holiday. This time next year I’ll be in the midst of planning another 18th, I find it crazy that I have one adult child now and within 12 months, both my children will be adults. As the saying goes ‘the days are long but the years are short’

Life lately 26 22&23/52 : Peonies and the World Cup

This fortnight has been one of preparation, planning and getting ahead. Next week sees a college residential, a special weekend away for our daughter’s 18th birthday and Father’s Day, so the ultimate level of planning is required. I’ve made sure I’m ahead in my work, as this is key report and assessment time, it’s actually really lovely not to be thinking about it as it’s all done and ticked off. Last weekend was wet and miserable and I didn’t mind focusing on my work admin to give me more time to organise the nice things.

So far for the birthday weekend I have confirmed our itinerary and with the exception of Mr S have organised new outfits for the special dinner. We are going to a Great Gatsby themed dinner with live Jazz music where dressing up is encouraged. I have found a couple of amazing 1920s flapper dresses on Vinted for my daughter and I and have managed to sources some accessories too. I didn’t want the outfits to look like fancy dress but stylish clothes. I hope I’ve succeeded on this project as I’m really pleased with the designs. I’ve been unable to persuade the boys to dress in 1920s fashion but did take my son shopping yesterday to get a smart shirt and trousers. Clothes shopping is not his thing unless it’s sports clothes in JD Sports but we managed to get some nice clothes which he is happy to wear.

I’ve also made a This is your Life photo book for my daughter, it took a number of nights trawling through all the photos and then theming them. I decided against just putting them in date order, except for the first double page spread which is photos from 0 – 18, and have pages as sister, daughter, granddaughter, animal lover, dancing queen etc.. There are some beautiful pictures and it was a work of love. I also chose 18 photos and had them printed as Polaroids to stick on the mirror in our hotel room to complement some other decorations I have too. It’s been hard work but I do take joy from making the sparkles.

Away from all the report writing and birthday prep I have been doing some other things. I did a special evening 5k trail run around a local beauty spot called Chase the Sun. A little bit of a misnomer as the weather has been so dull and wet over the past few weeks that there wasn’t much sun to be seen. However it was a stunning route and definitely a race to return to next year. There is a 7 miler too, so perhaps next year when I’m injury free it’ll be a treat! My son came to cheer me on and enjoyed exploring the area too. There is a really fun rope bridge so after the race we had a little play here and I got some great race photos. I did like the description the race director gave in his briefing, a summer barbecue and drinks with a little run. The race also coincided with World Running day so I got a badge on Garmin too, win, win.

On my commute I have listened to two brilliant books. Susie Chan’s running book and Libby Page’s ‘This Book Made Me Think Of You’ this is my new favourite book of the year with so many book recommendations contained within it. I managed to find the full list and have printed it off for future inspiration. I really like Libby Page’s work, other great reads have been the Lido and the Vintage Shop of Second Chances , she writes beautifully and her characters are so well written. She did an online book reading via our local library a few years ago which I watched and she came across as such a lovely, warm person. Susie Chan’s book was a recommendation after reading Sophie Raworth’s running book, the epilogue was an interview between the two women whom are friends and her enthusiasm and zest for life just made you want to read more of her running tales. She is an exceptional woman and the book was brilliant. However despite her enthusiasm, I will never do more than a half marathon. I prefer to live voraciously through others’ running adventures.

As I write I am also watching a World cup game. It’s actually been a slow start to the competition as timings mean that half of the matches have been played overnight due to time differences in the USA and Canada and England don’t make their debut til next Wednesday. I like a tournament where the games are crammed into the days and you can watch 3 or 4 matches a day quite easily. I’m hoping it’ll pick up as the tournament progresses. We have our WSC World Cup poster up in the snug. I reckon I’ve been buying the WSC magazine with the tournament’s free poster for about 35 years now! It’s always the best one, witty, cartoons and a clear scores and progression map. WSC remains a quality football magazine and the only one I read.

Finally, peony season has arrived and my first bunch from the supermarket have been perfect. The petals have bloomed and spark joy each time I sit down at the kitchen table and see them in the window sill. It’s always the little things which bring joy.