Life lately 2026 3/52 A near perfect Saturday afternoon

And so it continues, the dark, dreary, wet days of January are becoming somewhat tedious now. I feel like I’m in my hibernation era and am really looking forward to spring days.

With the exception of Saturday I haven’t been out and about much this week save for work and my twice weekly gym visits. In this weather I’m grateful to be able to stay warm and cosy cuddled up on the sofa in the evenings, surprisingly not watching The Traitors, the nation’s current obsession, I’m more a music than tv person. I have used as much time as I could listening to the audiobook of The Housemaid. My daughter recommended the film but it’s not showing at the local cinemas so I decided to listen to it on my commutes. As soon as I had started it, I needed to check my Good Reads record as the tone and style seemed very familiar and yes it was the same author as The Teacher a book I had read a few months ago. This familiarity made me more aware of the style and possibly meant that I had a good inkling where the story was going. It was a strong story and I was hooked but I’m not sure I’ll read any more of McFadden’s work for a while to make it more fresh.

January’s weather has been dismal and on Saturday morning I found myself volunteering pre parkrun in a biting wind and according to my weather app, the wind chill meant it felt like -6 degrees. It was so cold. 🥶 The photo doesn’t show how many layers I had on thermal running top, t shirt, teddy hoodie, woolly hat and my Beast of the East coat designed for exceptionally low temperatures. I don’t often wear the coat as it is so heavy but was very much needed. After volunteering I then ran the 5k. The conditions were rough and whilst the waves were mesmerising to watch en route, it was a parkrun to simply tick off.

Fortunately the day really improved, albeit the weather didn’t and the only imperfection of my Saturday afternoon was getting caught in wicked rain when I came out of the cinema. Rain where I had to peel my clothes off when I got home.

My plans for Saturday afternoon were changed on Friday and rather than another session on the sofa, I chanced upon that Hamnet was the Saturday matinee at the cinema in the next town. As the boys were at football and it definitely wasn’t their type of film I booked a single ticket and went along to watch the film. It was excellent, historical period dramas are not really my genre of choice but this was so much more. A story of love and grief. I had tears trickling down my face at the end and as the credits rolled you could hear the quiet sobbing all around the sold out cinema. I love this cinema it is proper old fashioned with red velvet seats and curtains and the cinema has many original fittings. An afternoon matinee seems a real throw back to olden times and it gives a real sense of nostalgia and warmth.

I went over a little earlier to the cinema and as the weather was cold and miserable I managed to get a parking space in the nearby village and was able to pop into some of their lovely little shops. The National Trust shop had some beautiful locally produced items and I also found the book Painting Calm. It’s a beautiful book and although I flicked through it and put it down there was something about it which pulled me back and I treated myself. I’ve been looking through it today and am looking forward to some of the projects. After parking in the neighbouring town I had half hour free and pottered around some of the charity shops and a pre loved shop which is a hidden gem. I found a beautiful tan Radley bag in here at a good price. It was exactly what I’ve been looking for so an unexpected bonus to my trip.

The afternoon finished perfectly with the boys’ team winning with an injury time winner. They sent great footage of the end and came back very happy.

Life lately 2026 2/52 fancy nails and bright flowers

January is not my favourite month of the year. Dark, wet and cold days, none of the pretty lights of December and so little in the diary. This week was typical January and so little to write about.

I miss my pretty Christmas lights and every January I try to fill the house with flowers to brighten the house. Tulips are my favourite flowers and coupled with my funky new vase, it’s a perfect pop of colour on my bureau. My classroom looks bare too so I’ve been popping £1 bunches of daffodils around the room, a perfect little pick me up.

On the classroom theme, I was interested in the neurodivergent Barbie released last week. Whilst there has been a mixed reaction, personally I love to see a doll with a communication aid, twiddles etc.. Representation matters.

After last week’s schedule was paused due to icy weather and football, this week I was able to start my half marathon training properly. I’ve added a new speed session which I did for the first time and wow whilst it was a much shorter run than normal at just over 20 minutes it was tough. My long run was lovely and social as by chance, I bumped into friends I hadn’t seen for ages en route and it would have been rude not to stop and have a quick chat.

This week I got my new nails done and it’s one of my favourite colours ever and so not my usual. I did fancy something different and the deep maroon, brown, grey colour is stunning.

Whilst I had considered doing a fortnightly catch up because of the lack of content, I also wanted to highlight that some weeks are ordinary in nature and that’s okay.

Life lately 2026, 1/52 : the football edition

Whilst many people start the new year with resolutions and fresh starts, I opted this year for a week of transitioning into the next year. I knew my diary was full and that I needed to pace myself for an exciting adventure at the weekend. The winter weather with days of freezing temperatures and storms also didn’t inspire new routines.

However this week was an epic week of football. My son loves his football and normally he and my husband attend the games together. However since his brain injury my husband finds it hard to do night matches and the journey on Saturday would have been too much for him so I accompanied my son to two games this week.

The first was Wednesday night and the final game for a much loved player, Antoine Semenyo who moved to Man City the next day for a club record transfer fee. We have loved Semenyo not simply for his football skill, enthusiasm and passion but for his commitment and dedication to the club. He always came across as a kind, humble and genuine person, a perfect role model. The match was our farewell to him and when he scored the winner in injury time, the atmosphere was unreal, the fairytale ending. It was one of those nights that you will always remember.

As if Wednesday wasn’t memorable enough, I also got to fulfil a footballing wish on Saturday by going to St James park in Newcastle to see a game. I have been a football fan since I was young and have been to hundreds of matches both home and away, albeit among the lower leagues. When the FA cup draw was made and it was confirmed as a Saturday afternoon kick off, everything seemed to align. It was the first week back at school so a quieter week and it felt if I was going to go this was my chance. We went on the supporters coach as I wasn’t going to drive the near 800 mile return trip. As seen by the photos above, we left at 3.35am on Saturday and returned at 3.18am the next day. In the few days beforehand I had jitters about the weather conditions for the drive, especially getting from our rural location to the Bournemouth stadium, an hour’s drive on country roads. Amazingly despite weather warnings about storm Goretti we were relatively unscathed, a few branches on the roads but no snow or ice. The wild deer were definitely more of a worry. However, it was astonishing to see the heavy snow in the Midlands as we passed through, with conditions improving as we headed north.

The stadium was as awesome as I had hoped. We walked around the ground and I got to see the statues of Sir Bobby, Shearer and Milburn. We took lots of photos from all areas of the ground and the view from our high seats was spectacular. We got to savour the atmosphere and it was lovely to see Kevin Keegan’s Tifo. Both Sir Bobby and Kevin Keegan are two of my footballing heroes and it was fitting to see them both celebrated at Newcastle. As much as I was excited by St James I was there to cheer on the opposition and what a game it was, 2-2 at full time, 3-3 after extra time and then sadly Bournemouth lost on penalties 7-6. I don’t often go to the games but gosh did I see two special matches this week. One of my resolutions this year was to have mini adventures and I feel I have made an excellent start on this.

After such a busy week, it was good to have a lazy Sunday, although I did take my son to football training in the afternoon. I also got ready to start my half marathon training, look at nutrition etc.. I do have plans I just needed to wait to start them.

Life lately .. the missing days

This week’s title comes from last week’s puzzle when I wrote week 52’s entry with 3 days of the year still remaining. This week has been a busy one. We spent a few days in Bristol and then back home for extra parkruns and football. It’s back to work tomorrow and I don’t feel that I’ve had the time to be lazy and relax this holiday. It’s a feeling I often find at Christmas and rather than a full on January full of resolutions, I’ll be kind and gentle to myself, a season of wintering.

Our time in Bristol was fun but really full. For logistical reasons, my daughter and I were booked into a local hotel and the boys slept at Grandad’s. On the first night we weren’t back in our room to well gone 10, but the second night we got back around 8ish and bought ourselves a little hotel picnic and had a very nice girlie night. It was nothing extraordinary, simply trying out some new make up and face care and cosying up under the covers to watch some television with tasty nibbles and fancy drinks. The previous evening we had gone sale shopping at Cribbs Causeway, I naively thought that an early evening trip would mean it would be quieter and more relaxed … it wasn’t! I was a little disappointed with the sales and apart from some picky bits from M&S and my moisturiser which needed replacing, we came back without any new purchases. My daughter did make up for this the next day when she did manage to spend her Christmas tokens on a nice outfit. When you have children who are nearly adults it’s more difficult to find activities for them to do during the day as soft play, swimming etc. don’t hit the mark like they used to do. We ended up at Air Hop a trampoline centre which fitted the brief well. They particularly enjoyed the basketball and Gladiator style games. I think next time I may join them, my motto for the new year is to live the bigger life. I did enjoy photographing them and like the slam dunk shots. I received a photo note book for Christmas so am choosing those to print and I hope it will develop my artistic skills in the coming year.

We returned home on New Year’s Eve, dropping our daughter en route at her friend’s for a night out. NYE just isn’t my jam, so I had an early night, which was much needed after lots of driving and 3 days away from home. New Year’s Day saw the first NYD parkrun of my home run and I was up early to volunteer pre run. I loved the little NYD design on my watch. It was a stunning morning, sunshine and blue skies but oh so cold. We had a great crowd and it was nice to be local on NYD. I had one day’s rest and then it was Saturday and another volunteer and run day. I didn’t realise it was possible, but it was even colder on Saturday than NYD, here’s hoping for warmer parkrun days to come.

Somewhere in between all the comings and goings I’ve started to plan my year ahead. I love a little plan and of course have given it a byline.. getting my kicks in 26. I have also been drafting some ideas for my #26in26, an idea inspired by Gretchen Rubin and that I’ve done ever since #18in18. I also need to review my #25in25. I did remember to tally my steps on NYE to be able to tick off one of my 25 list. My aim was to improve on my daily average steps of 9.6k in 2024, a very challenging year where I was caring a lot for my husband as he recovered from his ABI. I was chuffed with my 2025 average of 14.5k steps a day, probably due to a lot of running and training for a half marathon.

I am reading a very pertinent book at this time of year, Less by Patrick Grant. I often feel uneasy at our over consumption, especially at Christmas and this is helping me to think and focus on my needs rather than wants.

It’s back to work tomorrow and the return of routine and structure in our household. I do have a busy week and am embarking on my first mini adventure of the year. This is on my #26for26 list. I will reveal all next week, but I need to be up at 2.50am next Saturday to start the adventure!