Five things this week 24/52

This working week was solely focused on report writing at every single opportunity, so it’s been nice this weekend to be able to relax and catch up at home. I’ve finished all the written elements of the reports so it’s now proof reading and adding a few photos and with the reports complete then it’s the final countdown to the end of term, yippee! Again my 5 things of the week are very much from the weekend, except my nightly bedtime reading.

1. One of my jobs to do this weekend was to create a blackout window. I bought a great kit from Amazon and it’s excellent. It was easy to cut and fit and does the job it was intended for. In the summer we sleep with our windows and curtains partly open for the breeze. This summer we’ve noticed that a security light for the neighbours dazzles straight into our room and we needed to black it out. For a few weeks now we’ve hung a sweatshirt up to block it out, not the best look but now we have a proper black out blind which can be put up/ taken off as needed. It’s not for the whole window, but as it’s split into three we’ve done the middle section and it looks good and practical.

2. I’ve also taken time this week to sort out my make up. I needed to buy a few bits and pieces today so I’ve washed the bag and brushes, thrown away the old make up and added the dates to my new products so I know to keep it in date. I like this feeling of being organised as it’s been quite chaotic recently and I’ve been out of my comfort zone.

3. I am trying to find me this year with my little mantra to thrive in 25. I’m being more creative in my clothes choice and wore a new pair of wide summer trousers yesterday. I felt so lovely in them, nothing like I would normally wear but so comfortable and stylish. I am toying with the idea of going to a stylist in the autumn, I’ve lost 3.5 stone this year and need to find the style for my new shape.

4. Where I sit at my bureau I like to look out into our little hidden courtyard and Mr S has cultivated some beautiful sweet peas this year, definitely his best to date. I’ve been quite taken not only by the colour but also looking at bees collecting the pollen. Life is about the glimmers …

5. Finally no matter how busy I’ve been in the evening I do always try to read (and do Duolingo) even if it’s simply a page or two. My current read is Adults, whilst funny it is also a very stark reminder of the addictive, obsessive and emotional impact of social media. I am relieved that I am a consumer of social media and do not post as I know it would only be too easy to obsess about creating posts and then worry about likes and comments. Life is for living in real life and not for the ‘gram.

It’s a birthday weekend next week, so this week gives me the time to prepare and organise all the little things which make a birthday special. It’s the start of a busy season of birthdays and anniversaries although as the last two are being celebrated whilst on the cruise hopefully there’ll be slightly less planning needed this year.

Five things this week 23/52

This has just been one of those weeks. I can’t really sugar coat it, because sometimes in life there are weeks which are just a bit meh and this was one of them. It was a perfect storm of so many little things which just became overwhelming and then some really rubbish weather. Fortunately after an unsettling, busy week I did finish last night with a lovely dinner out with friends, it was very much needed.

New nails. A colleague recommended a new nail bar and I popped in for some new acrylics as a test before the big holiday nails! I’m very happy, it was a lovely salon and I look forward to returning next month.

A Vinted find. I found a gorgeous Boden dress on Vinted this week at a really good price. It’s arrived and is top quality and looks beautiful on. I love a Vinted find.

Oh William. I was curious to read an Elizabeth Stroud novel as she has been recommended. However it wasn’t one that I was particularly taken by, the characters irritated me but then again that could just be my time in life as ..

Hot flushes. I’ve really been hit by menopause symptoms lately and I’m sure this week my mood has been worsened by poor sleep due to night sweats, such an odd experience. There’s also the constant changes in temperature, my body is so confused.

Rescue Remedy. I have found myself dipping into my RR pastilles this week, keen to use anything that could help maintain some equilibrium in my life.

I’m relieved it’s a quiet week coming up, hopefully it’ll help me feel a little more in control and the sunshine is due to return which always puts me in a good mood.

A catch up on weeks 20,21 & 22/2025

The last three weeks have been busy so it’s a quick resume of life lately. As a family it was the end of the football season and straight into summer sports. My husband’s sport is a summer one so it definitely is ‘if it’s not on the calendar it’s not happening’ as we try to coordinate diaries with fixtures.

For my son, he’s enjoying the build up to finishing his school and going to a new SEN sixth form college. He had a residential to Center parks just before half term so the weekend before we had a shopping trip and hair cut to ensure he was prepped and looking good. The shopping list now includes powder and sea salt spray for the hair. He had a great residential although the house was very quiet. However, I didn’t quite get the benefit of child free evenings as my class were on a Duke of Edinburgh expedition on the same dates and I stayed to help with the evening activities. I didn’t camp as with the high level of medical need, I really needed to be on top form during the day and thus needed a good night’s sleep. I had a very impressive step count for this week with two days walking in expedition. Our route included some of the half marathon course I’m doing in October so it was a good recce and of course we eagerly spotted more mermaid tails. The mermaid trail finishes tomorrow and I’ve found a few extras last week so have finished with 2/3 of the collection. It was a nice little activity over the past two months.

May has been a good month for my running, I became the first woman to run 100 parkruns of my home parkrun and received a lovely little memento. Yesterday we had a really fun dinosaur themed parkrun. I’ve also been increasing my mileage in preparation of half marathon training. My official training plan starts during our holiday and as we’re on a cruise I’ll have limited opportunities to run, so my new plan is to start a week earlier, enjoy the cruise and focus on the training after. I’ve been creating running routes and am looking forward to the challenge.

Half term was quite tricky on family matters but we did enjoy a session at a water park and golf driving range. As the rest of the week didn’t go as planned, I used the time to plan for the upcoming birthdays, prom etc.. It’s a busy seven weeks til our holiday. I like to use my school holidays to plan as it helps me feel more organised and in control.

One of the half term highlights, was a check up at the nhs dentist. I haven’t had a nhs dentist for over 25 years so when our local dentist started accepting nhs we all signed up. I was relieved that despite not having been to the dentist in the last decade I only need a clean with the hygienist and a filling.

I do like the seasonal vegetables so have been doing lots of simple recipes with the most delicious fresh ingredients. Nothing beats the taste of a Greek salad with fresh, juicy tomatoes or an asparagus risotto. My husband has been busy in the garden and we have freshly harvested rosso lettuce too. My beautiful rose has been in bloom this week. I love this rose and it is very special as it was a 50th birthday gift from my wonderful neighbour. I miss her lots.

Hopefully that’s a sufficient catch up and fingers crossed next week it’s back to normal service.